PL, After reading your last post I tend to agree with you. I do not want to put it all in H's hands; that is way too much pressure, especially if he is not ready yet. Kids....what the heck to do with them? We definitely cannot afford a babysitter. My parents live 3 hours away, H's parents....well that's another story. That leaves my brother and his wife that just recently moved about 2 miles away. I watched their son last year from 6 weeks of age to 13 months (which by the way I attribute to my H being a WAS), so I guess they owe me some babysitting time. H works Saturdays and I work Sat. night so I will see if I can arrange something for this Sunday. Maybe I will let him know that in my note. Thanks for being there for me, PL, I truely appreciate you!!!