PL, I agree that it might be too pressuring but I am at a loss. With 3 somewhat small kids, it is really hard to find "us" time. For instance, this afternoon after we picked up all the kids from school; H went downstairs to work out and I went upstairs to our bedroom to read and eventually fell asleep (I was exhausted from working till 12:30 last night). H came up and took a shower. He came out semi-naked and I lifted the blanket and said "want to join me?" He did. We snuggled for about 1 minute before S5 came in and climbed in between us. I said something to the effect of "great, the story of my life..." 2 minutes later D9 came in and climbed into the bed. That pretty much killed the mood. Therefore, since I am not really comfortable talking to him yet I thought the note would be good. At least he would know how I felt. Whether he responds or not is up to him. Am I wrong in thinking this way?
