Hi Mama, I think the note might be too pressuring. I am not sure, you know best, but I am thinking of Michele's book. Actions, not words. Humor and lightness, not R talk. So, I say, if you liked it, just create the mood, or whisper in his ear let's go to bed early tonight, or let's get naked and see what happens. I dunno Mama bear, like I said you know H best. But if you are in doubt, that it might be too pressuring, it probably is. That's my two cents. Go easy, go playful, go mysterious. That would be my sense of it. Hang in there Mama :-) You are doing great.
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