Update: Tuesday H was home from work by 2:30!! I had to work at 5:00 and made a point to hug and kiss him goodbye.
BTW, had a great time at work and made tons of $$, of course today after going to Walmart and the grocery store it is almost gone...
H was home early again today although I am still uncomfortable with the fact that he works with OW. H does not have a regular 9-5 job so his start and stop times always differ depending on the day therefore I don't know if he actually worked until 3:00 or was really off at 2 and spent an hour with OW, ya know?
Anyhow the reason for this post is because I want to let you all know what I wrote in his note for the morning and if anyone thinks it is too pressuring, they can tell me now and I can rip it up and rewrite it before he sees it.
This is what I wrote:
"Good Morning Honey! If I fall asleep your jacket and uniforms are in the dryer. I don't know how to talk to you about this but I was so happy a couple of weeks ago when we were "together". I love being with you and look forward to doing it again soon! If you want to talk that would be great - if you're not ready yet that is ok too, just let me know. Thanks. I hope you have a good day! I love you! "
He gets up at 3 a.m. and I should be up for at least another hour or two so someone pipe in, otherwise the notes stands as is.