JM, I almost did the "right to happiness" thing, didn't I? But I didn't because I think deserving something means I have done something that, in all fairness, deserves a return of some type. I don't have the "right" to it because a right infers you don't have to do anything to get it. I don't expect my W to love me just because I am her H, I expect her to love me for what I put into our R. Now, whether I get it or am going to get it, is out of my hands. If I (and Mama) get the WRONG answer we can choose to let it destroy our lives, because we deserve better, or to carry on and make ourselves happy despite not getting what we may "deserve". JM, I don't want you to ever think I've been sucked into the deep black hole of rightful happiness ! Thanks for your thoughts, I like to think I'm a good man too (and my W agrees, she just doesn't love me like you do!). And now, after that brief interlude, back to you, Mama!


Divorced February 27, 2012.

"Only by love is love awakened".~ Ellen G White