Mama, don't try to rush this. Things ARE going in the right direction and if not, he's just proving himself to be a world class asswhole and really, isn't that what we all want in the end, to prove one way or another if what we are fighting for is really worth it?
That's been my thinking all along with this supposed reconciliation my W and I are trying. IF she's lying to me and still seeing him through all this, then I really think I have my answer, or something closer to it.
In any event, I wouldn't sweat the slowness of the process because after all, you are still learning too. Take your time and really try to focus on the positives. If it's negative, there will be time enough for that later on.
