Well not much to report, sadly...
Things are pretty much the same around here. H writes "ILY" every morning in his little note to me but does not say it. He still seems very standoff-ish. When he goes to bed (he goes alot earlier than me, since he gets up at 3:00 a.m.) he comes to me and gives me a hug but turns his face as far away from mine as he can.

Last night after tucking the kids in I went in to him since I knew he was still awake. I said; "Can I ask you something? Does it make you uncomfortable to hug and kiss me? Cause I feel like when I try I am invading your space." H said; "No, come over here. I like it." I proceeded to give him a hug and a kiss goodnight. Hopefully I broke the ice as far as affection goes. Who knows, time will tell.