Mama is still pluggin' along...

[Mamabear]

BL,
Since you are living it right now I will definitely take your advice seriously:

Keep quiet if you can.

Although, I have to admit this is VERY hard for me to do.

My H will talk R stuff with me, but he squirms a good bit about it BECAUSE HE FEELS UNDER THE MICROSCOPE, WATCHED AND ANALYZED CONSTANTLY. And he is by me. And your H is by you

I think that is exactly the same thing in our sitch. How do I stop "watching and analyzing"? I am so tired of being suspicious all of the time.