Quote: Then we can move on and I will never bring it up again.
I hate to break it to you, but this is crap. You will SO bring it up again. You think you won't but it will eat at you even after an apology. Even after it's completely over. Even after he swears he'll never do it again. Sorry.
My H will talk R stuff with me, but he squirms a good bit about it BECAUSE HE FEELS UNDER THE MICROSCOPE, WATCHED AND ANALYZED CONSTANTLY. And he is by me. And your H is by you. Bringing up the fact that he is or is not doing stuff you need, etc. just pressures him. Trust me. I'm living it. It slows down EVERYTHING. Any progress gets completely stalled, all because you HAD to say something. TRUST ME. I'm living it. You'll do what you will, b/c I know how difficult it is to just live in it and think 'how can I NOT say anything, otherwise he'll think this is okay with me?'. I'm just saying. Keep quiet if you can.
Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Is 43:18-19
If it seems slow in coming, wait. It's on its way. It will come right on time. Hab 2:3
