It's too easy to blame yourself. It's not healthy to blame him. So where does that leave you? I really don't think his bouncing back and forth has anything to do with you. You allowed yourself to be vulnerable - and ML sure give you reason to think that things are better/getting better. Just remember, if you have not laid down any ground rules yet in your new R, he's not actually breaking any agreements. You're not at that stage yet, so don't kick him to the curb because you allowed yourself to believe your expectations of the status of your relationship is something you didn't both agree on. Keep being patient. You'll have the chance to talk, set everything straight and then move on. All in good time. Hang onto that afterglow - many of us here are really jealous!
“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ” – Albert Einstein
