Quote: I am curious. Maybe I missed you talking about this, but what happened the day after, and the day after that, etc? Have you been close to ML again or just nothing at all?
Nothing happened. He hasn't tried again nor has he brought it up. We didn't talk before, during or after. Then later in the week I find out he is back talking with her and possibly meeting with her again. Makes me really feel like crap. Like did I do something wrong or am I no good in bed. Ya know? It almost hurts more than if we didn't do anything at all. Although, we really haven't had the opportunity since then since my H's back has been giving him problems and our youngest always ends up in our bed along with at least 1 very big dog and a cat or two.
I'm inclined to leave it alone right now. The #1 message I get on this board in almost every sitch is PATIENCE, patience and then more patience. If I see that he starts to go out again after work then I will probably say something; like GET THE F OUT!!! How does the saying go? "Hurt me once, shame on you. Hurt me twice, shame on me"
