Mama, I am curious. Maybe I missed you talking about this, but what happened the day after, and the day after that, etc? Have you been close to ML again or just nothing at all? Do you feel like you will again soon or no?
As for talking or not, I think that talking usually puts pressure on the sitch but then again, NOT talking may keep some important piece of info hidden from one of you, i.e. maybe he is just waiting for, say TONIGHT to make his move, or maybe he doesn't know you want to ML again NOW.
It's really hard to say. On one hand, you don't want to nag but on the other you don't want to stifle your feelings forever.
I think it all comes down to where you see your R at right now. If you are both 100% committed to making things work, then maybe more convo is what you need. If he is still working through some guilt, or even hesitating in terms of his committment, then talking could make things worse.
Sucks, but that's the life we live right now. It won't ALWAYS be this way and I really think you are making progress. Just make sure your impatience (and that's what it really is) doesn't get the best of you. You've waited this long, and the rest of "life" is getting better (isn't it?) so maybe just keep taking the actions you're taking and if the time feels right, talk to him. If it doesn't, just keep living.
