Mama, It's a long process! I'm so glad people on this board were able to prepare you, I hope in some way that helped cushion the fall somewhat. Again, he ML to you for a reason, as you said, he could of not bothered like he has for a long time. Further, how do you know he and OW weren't yelling at each other the whole damn time? Who knows. Keep pushing forward Mama. I think you could live forever just to outlast the bitch Your gonna take this in the end!