Mama,

Ok, now that enough time has passed from the initial "YAAAAAA" post, I want to second the idea that you don't go overboard on the meaning of this. Accept it for what it is and DO NOT allow it to build a whole new set of expectations for him to fail to meet. I know this is what I would do and I would hope I could fight the urge.

This could have been ANYTHING to him. It could be the start of true reconciliation, testing the "waters" so to speak, just plain "getting some", or any other reason men have sex with a woman. The main thing to understand is that no matter when, in YOUR situation, you can probably take this as a positive because if he was just interested in meaningless sex, he would have been doing it/you the whole time.

Just don't get your expectations up and don't allow yourself to be sucked into the turmoil that MAY be going through his head.

I will try hard as hell to keep this in mind for after I finally have this breakthrough. Sadly, I will probably fail, lol.

For now Mama, bask in that glow and smile your a$$ off. Make 'em wonder... although if "they" know you at all these days, it's gonna be the worst kept secret in the universe.

GH


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