Hey Mama...been a while since I posted, but I am happy to hear that OW might be outta the picture....but you gotta remember to keep up the work as usual and not take anything forgranted.....keep up the detachment while he works through the residual stuff, and keep yourself strong for any whackiness that may come as part of this stage.
I have no idea what the MLC A vs the non-MLC A is like...but others say that withdrawal is part of it, as well as a HUGE dose of reality and guilt. Like we have seen Jokerman say here, he was hit with reality to see who OW was and also guilt in what he did and how much he almost threw away....that's sobering. So, give him some space...he's getting his gears back in life right now, thinking about restoring intimacy is the last thing if he is feeling guilty.
In a way you should feel good that he can't hop right back to you without this period of guilt and emotions...that means he cares and realizes what he almost lost.
