Good to hear from you again, I was beginning to wonder where you were! If your H has truly broken it off, I think you would be wise to hold your horses and be patient as can be. He is likely going through a period of withdrawal, and this is a rough time where NOTHING you do will make him feel what you want him to. In fact, I think that if you try and foster intimacy now, you might play into his self doubt. Just be yourself, focus on yourself and allow him to travel this portion of the road as he needs to. Be open to being a part of it, but don't try and make anything happen, you will only hurt yourself in the process because your experience will go against your expectations. Give it time and give him space.
“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ” – Albert Einstein
