Quick update: All last week H came straight home from work. Saturday he was home by 1:00 - hasn't done that in almost a year! Had a nice relaxing weekend. H came straight home again Tues. and Wed. Seems like maybe H and OW have ended!!!
Now, the question is; how do we renew our intimacy? Is he just not attracted to me or is it residual feelings for OW or guilt or a combination of all three?
Jokerman, if your out there, maybe you could help with this question.
I give him a hug at bedtime but sometimes it seems forced. Lately I have just not done anything. Like when I leave for work, I would normally give him a hug and a kiss but it doesn't feel like he wants me to, so I don't.