I certainly hope so. At some point I am going to need to stop giving her the benefit of the doubt and stop giving her chance after chance. We'll see soon enough.
I am still in no hurry to end my M despite her poor and hurtful choices and behavior. But, SHE has to live HER life and in doing so, she helps me walk down the path to my serenity and inner peace. She may choose to join me, but either way, I owe it to myself and my children to make myself happy, healthy and whole.