Thank you, Frank. You are my guiding light in being The Superior Man.
Quote: You r W is starting to become AWARE of shat she wants but she also doesn't trust herself. She has a lot of "what if's" in her head.
During my sitch, I have learned that the most importand attribute that I lack is patience. I have developed a great deal of patience during my sitch, but I still have such a long way to go to be a truly patient person. I still tend to want what I want and I want it NOW! Ugh. She will trust herself again, with regards to me and what is right. I will help her to find that trust with gentle, assertive, patient leadership.
Quote: It's going to take time to rebuild the trust, and that comes with consistent, predictable actions on your part. Being the superior man.
Thank you, Frank. I understand and I will keep reading, studying and applying that information to my life. Again, I will help her to find that trust in me and in herself with gentle, assertive, reassuring and patient leadership.
Quote: She verbalized in your meeting that she DID want your marriage to work. However, she doesn't want to take the risk yet. Still chasing the circus.
I realize that she doesn't trust the changes that I have made as being real and/or lasting and more importantly she doesn't trust her own sense of what is right for her despite what she is beginning to recognize as the TRUTH. Great news is, my patience, kindness, grace and love grow leaps and bounds daily! She will tire of chasing the circus and when her exhuastion sets in and she falls, her LION will still be there STANDing to help her back to her feet and to walk with her on OUR path to redemption, restoration, rebuilding and reconciliation in the glow of God's mercy, grace and glory! Amen.
