Quote: This morning, on my way to dropping off D6 at school I went to school and OM's car was parked out front and W was pulling out of the garage. We didn't talk, but she did call me to ask me how I am doing and to ask a favor. I told her I am doing great and told her no on the favor. She then called MIL and told MIL that I treated her rudely in telling her I would not do her a favor.
HH, my W would start to reach out to me when OM didn't call her for a few days, or didn't 'respond' to her. Then he would call and everything was all better and I was crap again. I could tell when he called by that behavior and cel phone records always confirmed it.
It was uncanny that he would back off long enough (probably banging his girlfriend he lived with, who he, uh, broke up with) till he got a sense she was 'getting away' and he would give her the 'fix' she neded to keep her on the hook.
And of course, to keep his ego boost.
My Counselor said this is classic 'user / Emotional Predator' style. Textbook.
It will end. That you can be sure of. He doesn't want her. Only his ego does.
Quote: My guess is that W did not tell MIL that OM was over again last night. W is setting such nice boundaries in her new love life. Lie to me, cheat on me, make no changes and I'll take you back into my life and my bed. Nice. She is certainly NOT the woman I thought I married. Sad.
I'm sure MIL doesn't believe her, and no, she is not the girl you married right now. You know, 'Space Aliens' took her brain away.
IN the words of the Emporer in Star Wars: The Empire Strikes Back - "everything is proceeding exactly as I fortold it would". Bwaaa Haaa HAaa!
