Quote: Frank, I am in disagreement with you on this being okay.
He has told her these things before.
It is now not as simple as getting/taking a chance to vent.
He is now sabotaging his DB efforts by always having to interject HIS feelings and thoughts.
He said: "then told hesr I am really pissed and told her why. I let her know that I was extremely pissed that she chose unilaterally to introduce our children to that piece of sh*t and I asked her what kind of loser targets a married woman?? "
It is true, and it is how he feels about her abuse of his kids innocence. When she paints the picture of "OM the nice guy" he does not have to accept it. I know I didn't and it had an effect on her. She RESPECTED me.
I would not stand for my W doing ANYTHING related to her affair in front of my kids. ANYTHING. They hurt enough as it was.
How much did you expose your kids to your affair? If it was 'not at all' then good for you. If it was 'sometimes' then how do you think it made them feel?
Like my W was, his wife is nuts, and he has to protect his kids when he can.
In general he should keep quiet, especially when she talks about OM all the time. However, that doesn't mean he can't speak the truth to her.
