Quote: Tonight, my W told me more about OM and his GF and her conversation with OM. She started delve into the R with OM specifically, telling me that she had not tried to make contact with him. She told me that I know that she likes to get the last word and one of hesr friends told her that by hesr NOT calling him she IS getting the last word. I stopped her again and told her I am not in her life to listen to her about her A with that loser. What was wrong with saying "I told you I will not listen to you talk about your affair" and then hanging up the phone or walking away? (I'm not sure but I think this occured via the telephone...) I did tell her that I am quite surprised that OM hasn't tried to contact her to re-spin more webs of lies. And what was wrong with pouring yourself a nice steaming mug of "shut the hell up" at this point in the conversation, huh? Are you really so eager for her to see that you are the "better choice" that you have to rip him down to her? Because I can assure you, if you sound HALF as condescending in person as you do in some of your posts, you are doing the EXACT opposite.
I then told her That was your third mistake as I don't recall her asking you what you thought in the first place. I am really pissed and told her why. I let her know that I was extremely pissed that she chose unilaterally to introduce our children to that piece of sh*t and I asked her what kind of loser targets a married woman?? and when you continued...you showed her that your feelings and the spirit of offense that YOU have is the most important thing to you.
Yes, I was yelling. My bad. I am hurt and pissed. She hung up on me (her regular M.O.) and I have not been able to talk with her again. You don't need to talk to her. You're just gonna apologize and she has heard that before. SHE IS WATCHING YOU. You need to get a grip and quit acting like HER Daddy.
She text msgd me to ask me if I was done yelling at her and I texted back that I was, BUT I am still pissed! That's as far as we got. Good because you need to go back to your knees. She had a signing and has her dinner with her GFs. I'll let you all know what comes of this backsliding event. Hopefully an eyeopening moment will occur. FOR YOU. Ugh.
We all know your wife is acting the fool. But you are not helping your cause. You STILL don't get it. Don't give me any crap about not being able to help yourself. Bullsh*t. You are screaming for her to notice you but you ARE GOING ABOUT IT THE WRONG WAY. You KNOW to zip it up but you never do. Do not let this new knowledge you have about MLC etc...allow you to think you are mentally superior to her. It so often sounds like you think just that.
Keep unrolling the rope and the only person you're gonna hang is yourself.
