Quote: Well even though you back slid, what you did is a normal and predictable reaction for us on this side of the fence.
I don't want to be predictable. Normal yes, but predictable, NO.
Quote: Don't take it to heart, that stuff happens. If you would have really screwed up she wouldn't have even texted you back.
I wish I could take to heart what YOU said, but she is so lost and I don't even know what her reality is. She won't tell me anything. I know what I know because I SEE and I pay attention.
She didn't even remove OM from her MySpace.com page. Only moved him to the back page. Perhaps she is stupid and a glutton for punishment from the emotional predator? I'd like to believe my W isn't and doesn't, but, who knows, based on her recent behavior I am extremely confused. I hate feeling this way, but sometimes I do question what the heck I am waiting on. Geez, love sucks sometimes!
Quote: Isn't it amazing how we can see all the mistakes that they are making?
Nope, what would be amazing to me would be to be able to see all of MY mistakes.
Quote: If we say something they punish us and just keep right on going like it all some sort of figment of our imagination.
I don't really quite understand the extent of her venom and vindiciveness. A friend of mine used a great term I had never heard before to describe my W: She's butt-hurt!
Quote: Wish I knew what it takes to get them to actual listen to helpful advise.
Me too, but I have come to understand that NOTHING I say is considered helpful unless she seeks me out for direction on something. The 'stuff' she does that I don't agree with she keeps to herself and is 100% certain she is doing the right things. Whatever I say is my attempt to control her.
My only hope is to work harder to detach more. That and praying for a miracle to be worked in my life and M.
