Quote: Unfortunately, I don't have control over who she decides to bring home and share her bed with. FYI, we haven't even file papers for a D yet, so nothing to tie her hands with with regard to bringing her adulterous behavior around our children. Perhaps THAT is the reason to file the papers alone?
I wonder if filing some kind of document that is not D papers is possible? Separation or other rules saying SHE can't bring men home?? Maybe Amy has an idea or your lawyer can think of something.
Yes. I don't know what they call it in California though but here it's a separation agreement and it can be specifically stated that there are to be no overnight guests when the children are in her home. You can be more specific and request that she not even introduce your young children to the men she's meeting on the INTERNET.
THAT would be a legal separation and I suppose I can talk with an attorney on a consult to determine how to do this unilaterally by serving her.
Quote: What she nor you seem to realize, is that she is laying some very dangerous ground work that could cause her to lose custody of the kids should you choose to seek it.
More lawyer fodder. Yikes! I will check into it. I will seek such a measure to protect our children from an unsound mind.
Quote: She's more unfit by the day and if she is bringing home people she meets on the internet, well surely even in California that would be frowned upon.
Well, she's settled on one OM and, according to her, while he was two-timing her unbeknownst to her, she says she wasn't exclusively seeing OM either. Not my business, but talk about having a foundation of a R being built on sand (quicksand?)!!! And while I am at it, she continues behaving like a teenage tramp and condoning rat b*astard behavior from her new love interest. NOTE TO SELF: Slap self for talking smack that is useless!
BTW, Frank led me to some material on emotional predators. He is adept and she is prime prey. It's all in God's hands now, I say, as I lovingly detach and watch her fall.
