Quote: Unfortunately, I don't have control over who she decides to bring home and share her bed with. FYI, we haven't even file papers for a D yet, so nothing to tie her hands with with regard to bringing her adulterous behavior around our children. Perhaps THAT is the reason to file the papers alone?
I wonder if filing some kind of document that is not D papers is possible? Separation or other rules saying SHE can't bring men home?? Maybe Amy has an idea or your lawyer can think of something.
Yes. I don't know what they call it in California though but here it's a separation agreement and it can be specifically stated that there are to be no overnight guests when the children are in her home. You can be more specific and request that she not even introduce your young children to the men she's meeting on the INTERNET.
What she nor you seem to realize, is that she is laying some very dangerous ground work that could cause her to lose custody of the kids should you choose to seek it.
She's more unfit by the day and if she is bringing home people she meets on the internet, well surely even in California that would be frowned upon.