Quote: I'm sorry. I don't remember. Anyway as the sitch has continued, I have started to think it is a very real possibility even if I might not have in the beginning. Regardless, you are handling things as best you can
You NEVER need apologize to me. EVER! I truly believed that she is in grip of a MLC from the beginning because W has hated getting older and looking older and it would really chafe her backside when people thought we were close in age, cuz I'm 40 and she's going on 32. One more tidbit from BIL last night. He is a bartender and said that at his restaurant that he has to card anyone who looks 30 and under, so.... He also said that if he cards a woman who is tickled by being carded and he is asked to guess the age of the patron, everyone is going to guess at least 5 years younger than they think the patron is. Thats just a courtesy thing for vain people.
It makes sense that with what you know about W, that you wouldn't think that MLC would apply partly b/c of her age, I'm sure. I certainly don't fault you. Heck, I don't fault her, if it's a MLC. Sucks, but the MILC is not her fault. Her behavior is her fault, but, if I'm not mistaken, counseling is available for those suffering from a MLC and there is no excuse for not seeking counseling unless she is living on the banks of the river denial.
Happens. This is why I STAND for my M and my W because I am the rock who will see W and my family through whatever her issue is. If I don't, who will? Gotta stay in the fight 'til the fight is won! Wait...what's that I hear? The theme from Rocky?!?!?!? LOL
Quote: And just look! You're even reading better between MY lines.
Good friends are very hard to come by. I truly consider you a friend, even though you and I have never occupied the same space. You tell me what I need to hear and you give it to me straight.
I appreciate you, your candor, you generosity with your time, effort, & energy, and your willingness to offer your perspective. Everything you do helps me. EVERYTHING! Thank you for being a friend. I have never needed good friends more than I need them now. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
I appreciate your advice to be her port in this storm. I will!
One more tidbit from BIL last night. He is a bartender and said that at his restaurant that he has to card anyone who looks 30 and under, so.... He also said that if he cards a woman who is tickled by being carded and he is asked to guess the age of the patron, everyone is going to guess at least 5 years younger than they think the patron is. Thats just a courtesy thing for vain people. 
