I've thought that from the very beginning. I even posted that in my thread and you responded to my thoughts on that.
I'm sorry. I don't remember. Anyway as the sitch has continued, I have started to think it is a very real possibility even if I might not have in the beginning. Regardless, you are handling things as best you can.
Quote: I will be working on me for the rest of my days and YES, I will heed your advice and SHUT MY MOUTH around her family. I know that's not what you said, but I believe it's what you meant
And just look! You're even reading better between MY lines.