Quote: You're not going to be able to do anything to quicken the process your wife is in right now. Just continue to be a port for her in this storm.
Quote: I know and I will. I am stronger than even I thought I was; or maybe just crazier. I have been a port for her in this storm on several occasions. I continue to tell her that she is loved and a worthwhile person.
Quote: I sometimes think she's gone into MLC.
I've thought that from the very beginning. I even posted that in my thread and you responded to my thoughts on that.
Quote: If so, you need to prepare for a long ride.
I have a been prepared to be in for a long ride since I said I DO. This is the '...or worse part', I take it. That's OK. I can handle this. I hope she is able to hold her end together for herself and for our children. In my sitch/M, there is no quit in me, no surrender, no days off, no time outs, no throwing in the towel, no raising the white flag, no calling a truce. I only know how to fight this battle one way: ALL THE WAY, ALL THE TIME. My plan is keep on keepin' on in the good fight until the enemy calls it quits, having met his match and deciding to move on to easier prey. I will win. My W will ask me to reconcile. We WILL build a better, stronger, more respectful and loving marriage. My family will remain in tact. In the meantime, I will walk by FAITH, even when I cannot see and I will listen to the Voice of Truth. My PMA is BACK!!
Quote: Continue to work on yourself and keep your opinions to yourself around her family.
I will be working on me for the rest of my days and YES, I will heed your advice and SHUT MY MOUTH around her family. I know that's not what you said, but I believe it's what you meant.
My PMA is BACK!!
