Cobra you started the thread asking how to become more
"compassionate, kind, gentle, empathic yet confident, self assured, consistent, stable, alpha male who champions the rights of oppressed females everywhere, stands up to male tyranny and chauvinism and fights for truth, justice and the American way!"
and you've refused to take anyones advice or observations without defending your "tactics" or opening your mind to what almost everyone is telling you.
I don't have anything to offer you other than this.
As much as you may feel that your situation with your spouse is unique in its difficulties at the end of the day you chose her to be your wife, the situation you find yourself in is of your own making.
