Quote: So, to say "I am acting this way because of you and I won't be controlled by you" pegs my irony meter.
Wow, Mrs. Nop. I never thought of it from that angle! And you are absolutely right. And I have yet to figure out HOW to not be 'controlled' in more ways than this by my H and now XH.
When you are hurt and angry and feel as if the OP is playing games with you... giving you hope then taking it away at the most random moments...
HOW do you avoid being sucked in to that emotional tornado?
I think for my sanity; me and alot of other people need to know this!
