Quote: She dragged up ancient history as why she couldn’t rust me. I told her that this continual deflection causes me to have little trust in her, and she needed to let go of her past grievances.
Quote: What are her past grievances? Is there any minute posibility of legitimacy to her past grievances?
Some people used 'past grievances' as an excuse to be selfish. An excuse to abuse the W/H in the high moral ground of... you-did-me-wrong!
What happens when time passes? What should happen when the offender has shown remorse, appologized, prostrated themselves? and still... when the offended feels the need to be justified or maybe just vendictive... it is once again arrowed straight at the others heart?
How long is too long? How many accusations are enough? How many times before you get soooo tired that you want to scream to roof off the house?
