There was a huge red flag that went off from this comment that Cobra made.....


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S13 threw a hissy fit and declared she was not going to TKD anymore. I accepted that, though there will be consequences. I took S9 to the test, which ran late to about 10:00pm. Toward the end, just before the board breaking, he complained to me that his ear was hurting. He had a cold, but was going to school all week without any problem. I was a little concerned that he would tire, but I also knew this was a very easy test and he should be OK. What I had no idea about was his ear.




Cobra's daughter stated she didn't want to go to TKD anymore. His very next sentence was...there will be consequences. Cobra states that his son had been sick all wekk but was able to go to school so why not go to TKD. Hmmm I am thinking he is maybe petrified of you to even say anything at that point. After all his sister is getting consequences for not going. I also seen where he told you during that his ear was hurting. You said you were concerned that he would tire OBVIOUSLY knowing that he was sick but taking him anyway. But then I see you mention that you woke up sick so stayed in bed all day long. To bad you don't have the same care and compassion for your children. Because this is a power struggle with you. Because your wife takes up for the kid's because she knows they don't enjoy going to this anymore. She is against the TKD and you want to always be one up on her.

I find it HORRIBLE that you involve your kid's!! There is NO EXCUSE for that. Maybe you should bring that up to your counselor. I can almost guarantee she won't agree with that and will call you out on the carpet. It seems maybe many things you are telling your counselor are only negative things about your wife. In other words she see's you through rose colored glasses because you don't admit your own wrong doings. There is NO excuse to call your wife names like you have been doing. Two wrongs never make a right. I don't hear where she called you any name. In fact in your post I can see whewre she admitted wrong doing on her part a couple times. All I see you saying is where YOU were owed an appology. My gosh you are just so full of yourself and so hell bent of being right.

Your poor innocent children are suffering. And you Cobra ARE TO BLAME! YOU are the one stooping to the lowest point ever in bringing them into the power war between you and your wife!

You need to stop worrying about her so much and work on yourself. YOUR FOO issues.