When she breaks what I consider to be the rules of civility, along the same lines as what Lil mentioned, brands me as an unfit, uncaring parent, accuses me of being abusive, stumps any effort on my part to move forward by holding all past grievances over my head, then yeah, I feel quite good in calling her a b!tch. She does everything she can to belittle and hurt me. So the name calling is just tit-for-tat. In those situations, I have no problems in attacking back. In all other situations, I do not feel good about calling her names and I do not do it.
