My Story - Looking for help and support

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There is no doubt...and I hear what you are saying...I would definitely not rush into anything serious. I will take some months to find myself before I even think about doing that. I do admit there is a part of me that wants to run out and jump into the fray because I know it will mask the pain. I know that is not healthy and I need to time to grieve and work on myself so that I will be whole before I enter my next relationship.

I am certainly not jumping into anything serious any time soon...first of all I feel I need to be divorced to even think about getting serious. Plus this time I really want to take my time and not settle and look for red flags and heed them. I do not think I could ever be in a realtionship with a divorced woman who walked away from their previous husband unless there was like very bad circumstances regarding it where she had no other choice. My current wife was a walkaway from her first marriage too...should have paid more attention to that...I do think it is a pattern. I just KNOW when/if I get married again I want it to last...I really want to grow old with someone...seems hard to find these days...