Well separated with the wife tonight...she has until Nov 1st to get out of our house. She is likely taking S3 with her. Very unhappy. OM and her nightlife single life is much more important than our family. Some part of me is glad it is done. Though I am very devastated tonight. She has basically been a WAW all this time...she gave up on us a long time ago and I don't think there was anything in the near term I could do to change that. I refused to live with her while she ran wild...I could not handle it. I was never going to get my own life with her that close and doing as she pleased. Drove me too nuts. So now she is moving out. Now she can experience the real world and make her own decisions.
It will take a little time but I will be alright. Maybe it is better for me longterm though I don't see it right now. I will miss having every day contact with S3 the most. Very angry right now...drowning my sorrows...but I kind of knew it would lead to this when I made the ultimatum. I do not regret that decision. Now I can get on with my life. Now I can truly go about getting my own life again...I have no other choice.
"Friendship is like peeing your pants: everyone can see it, but only you can feel the true warmth."
