Kind of have doubts of what I am doing is right. I think she is probably going to choose to leave. This may be the best thing for both of us. I am having to hard a time living in the situation and it will probably be good for her to get away and get the freedom she desires. It will allow me to detach and GAL...and all of that...finding it impossible in the current situation. I cannot live in the same house with the A out in the open. I am feeling more at peace with it and my goal when she says it is not to break down but to just agree with her and be kind of business like about it...lol...this will be tough. I need to remain friendly with her so we can be the best parents we can...and if it comes to a D I want to avoid a messy D if possible.

Off to the "We're Seperated - what now?" board...soon I would guess.

Last edited by SRTogacihC; 09/20/06 07:28 PM.
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