SRT, as long as you believe in the path you've chosen, you can weather the outcome. If she chooses to end it then be as caring and fair as you can be. Your actions now will help to set the table for any reconciliation in future. Don't shut any doors and remember if she decides to stay she is making a great sacrifice (in her mind, and that is what is important). She is giving up that fantasy world that she looked to as a reason to carry on. She is giving up an infatuation that felt really goooooood! She will grieve it. Be understanding and help her through it. Good luck with this. Keep us all posted. those are my ramblings for you for today.
