I really have enjoyed MC because it has forced us to talk about things. On our own that seems nearly impossible or counterproductive when it does happen. I find it very comfortable to have a third party to inject some wisdom. She also seems more willing to talk in the MC setting.
Ideally I would like to do counseling once a week and do all of our relationship discussions in that setting...the rest of the week I can DB, work on myself, and hopefully have a good environment for us to get along and reconnect. Without the MC part I don't think I would feel like I am making much progress.
"Friendship is like peeing your pants: everyone can see it, but only you can feel the true warmth."
