Give yourself a break. Today is a new day. You've been through the most traumatic thing a spouse can deal with (may even be worse than death!). You got feelings here. Afterwards the cheating spouse often just wants to carry on and forget it cuz they feel damn guilty. You don't have to go back to living the way you did before the A. DB is about building your M not just saving it when its going down the toilet. Go for it, guy. It's in your hands. You got the power (that's from a song I think?)!
