My Story - Looking for help and support

[SRTogacihC]

Hello and welcome. First thing's first, sorry you have to be on this board.

I'm not much of the advice giver like the bright people in this board. Read that book that you ordered and understand it, it would make dealing with your current situation a little easier. Easier in a way that you'll get past some of the things that a betrayed spouse will always overlook in trying to save/salvage the marriage or relationship.

I'm on the verge of maybe succeeding in fixing what I broke (I had part in it), my W was the one who hit it with a hammer. One thing I had to do that was the hardest is stopping snooping. I still have the software in all our computers but I have not looked at it since I started DBing. I don't know if I ever will, I will probably just let it sit in the background and have my normal daily use of the computers purge it out of the buffer. *sigh*

Good luck and keep posting, it helps to vent out what's eating you inside.

Wedge...just read your journaling and situation...I see we are in the exact same boat. Sorry to hear...reading your posts really helped me and gave me some inspiration that my new course of action is the right course.

It is just so difficult but posting on here really helps me vent and not have confrontations with her.

The W will be home in about an hour afer spending some time with the OM...it will be hard to not probe and question but I am just going to smile and try to go to a happy place.

That Unfaithful song really hit home...I had to do everything not to put it on my myspace page...but I do not think that would be a good idea as most of my friends/family have no idea what is going on and would certainly piss off the W to no end if I played that on my page. Maybe I will just happen to play it when she is in our office and we are both on computers...gotta have a little sense of humor...