Quote: Just one question: If you had money, would you still think that the girls are better off with Kevin? You're bringing so many things up, it's hard to tell what the main problem here is. Would you still feel this way if you had the money to get the things you need for the next few months? NOT FOR A SECOND. If I was pulling the money he is right now, I would KNOW they are better off with me. But I am not. He's single and "rich" in my eyes . . and I have two kids and I am totally scraping the bottom of the barrel!
Yes, it's not fair. It sucks. But that's the way it is, right? OK so this is a money question. So how much do you need to make these problems go away for a few months. You shouldn't have to work full time yet, Kiya needs you still.
Like you said, it's not like your H is going to stop working and be a STAD, right? They're going to be in child care anyway. Even worse, because since he's on the road so much, they wont even have him at night. You on the other hand can get a job - even a partt-ime one and start getting on your feet. We'll help with that too.
Emily, take a deep breath. You can do this!
May it be eternal while it lasts.
My sitch
Me: 36
H:34
M: 5 years
Bomb: 03/14/06
