Quote: I'm going to call my H and tell him I'll sign his divorce papers (he didn't file because he wants to do it online and they told him if boths parties won't just sign then they cannot do it for him and he'll have to go with a lawyer and court and all that jazz) . . . but I want HIM to take the girls.
You're in a very deep spot in the valley and I have learned that it is ALWAYS stupid to make a move from that position.
But I see that you have already done so.
You would be making a mistake to leave your girls with him. You are setting yourself up to never be any better and to never rise above this and having let the girls go would be your the reason whether you realized it or not.
You really need to stand STILL and CLOSE YOUR MOUTH.
I am speaking from experience so trust me when I tell you you are going to regret even THINKING of leaving your girls.
And WHO THE HELL CARES what might or might not make Cassie happy?!
Do you really want that tramp to mother your daughters!???
Them roll over and stand the hell up!
MANY, MANY, MANY women have been in your position and have successfully pulled their families out of poverty and raised outstanding children.
