Quote: My H told me to download it today. He said it might make me cry. . . I wasn't perpared for how hard the tears hit though . . . wow!
My W was really into the drama of lyrics of various songs while she was in her cloud. All it meant was that SHE was still emotionally messed up and I had to CONTINUE to DB and keep my barriers up. Not rry to pull her back. She had choose to COME BACK. And that meant NO OM for several weeks first.
You'll know when it's time to work on getting back together. NOW is not it. He (like my w did) has to learn to appreciate you BEFORE he can attempt to reconcile.
and YOU have to LET HIM. If you don't let him work for it, he will not understand how important you are to him, and how you and your kids can't be taken for granted.
Do this for HIM. Don't be selfish and run to him. Let him grow up like you are doing. Let him have nobody but himself to be with before he is with you, no OW, nobody.
