Granted your husband has not done much in the way of helping you to feel secure BUT YOU are putting yourself into the tailspin.
I'm telling you right now YOUR ACTIONS are going to determine what happens at this point.
If you are going to be the jealous, bitter and untrusting one in this picture, you can be assured he won't be attracted back to you at all.
IF HOWEVER you present yourself to be willing to give him the BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT and you present yourself as confident that you can make it with OR without him...in spite of someone calling on the other line...you will be putting yourself in a much better light.
