Well Amy . . I can't wait to hear what you mean exactly.
I read your last post here . . .don't quite understand what you mean.

He called me this morning.
Said yes he had gotten the phone but it hadn't gotten turned on yet.
She is not out with him, so he says.
Blah blah blah. . .
Nothing else to say.
He loves me . . he's sorry. He's sorry it took him so long to realize where he needs/wants to be. etc etc etc.
He can't wait to come "home" on the 2/3 . . .
WHATEVER!

I'm not going to tell him he can't come see his girls.
I'm trying to step as cautiously as possible. He's lucky that there was at least a semi-good cause. I don't really believe it.
We'll see what happens with the OW.
I'm determined this time . . . I won't get hurt.