You be still - stand - and see what HE brings to the table, if anything.
Do not say "I love you" anymore to him, either.
He needs to know how bad he has blown it before he can comprehend what he has to do to make it right.
He needs to feel the loss of the relationship because that OLD relationship is dead. If he ever comes back and you LET him come back...it will have to be with the understanding that you're starting over, growing up and facing yourselves AND each other with COMPLETE honesty.
