I am really pitiful at figuring out things to do for myself. One thing I really enjoy is time alone in the house to get house work done. How sad am I?

I do enjoy doing things for my H and for my boys and I do things like that often to surprise them.

I had to cancel my counseling session for this week and I probably will not be able to go next week either. It makes me angry that I can not go, but there is just no time.

A typical day for me is:
up at 5:30
at work by 7:00
lunch 12-12:30
leave work at 3:30
Pick the boys up up from school and get home around 4:15
Fix dinner
Eat between 5 & 6
If it is a hockey night (Tues, Wed and Fri) we are gone from the house by 5:00 and home around 8:30 or 9:00 otherwise I get things done around the house and get in bed about 11:00 - 11:30 and I try to be alseep by midnight.

Help me think, I would like to hear your suggestions for something to do for me.


Me 54
DS19 and DS17
Married 06/1989
Divorced 01/2011