NNP, if you truly enjoy doing things for your H then do it!!!! If that is what gives you pleasure, makes you happy, puts that skip in your step, then do what makes you smile. BUT, balance that with something you can do just for you. A movie, or have H take kids to movie so you can have a quiet evening at home(no cake baking that night), go have a manicure or a pedicure (I hear it's wonderful)...or better yet, tell us what would be fun for you.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
