My parents divorced when i was 7yrs. old.Then my father did a disappearing act for 5 yrs.Then came back into our lives.Which it is o.k. now. -Anyway, C helped me with childhood issues,even though i went to C because my H had an A.I don't know how it helped but it did.I hope that C helps you. -It is hard when you are M and have kids,i know.You don't want your H to leave,and you don't want your kids to suffer.And the kids do suffer,i know.We as adults don't realize how much they do,unless we have been through it.So i do understand why you haven't confronted him.I think it is "not wise" to tell you to confront him,because nobody wants to tell you to do something that makes situations worse.K