Sorry to say this has been going on for much longer than a year. and yes I am fearful he will leave. As he has told me in the past he is only here for the boys. His actions do not necesssarily support that.

I think normal people would have addressed this long before now, I am just now finding out about myself and how the way I grew up effected how I am now.

Thanks for your input.



Me 54
DS19 and DS17
Married 06/1989
Divorced 01/2011